As you become older and wiser, one does begin to see things differently. For example: Every single human being was given a gift from god, a talent. I knew early on what my talent was, but during that time my parents didn't understand me. I pushed my limits in every way possible while growing up and I do believe that my parents were relieved when it was all over and I went out on my own.
Because I started a family a 25 years old, I changed my thought process and focused my efforts in the Mortgage Industry. I was good at it, but it was never what I really saw myself doing and eventually I just forgot about wanting to be a Police Officer or joining the Military. My life became about being a good wife and a good mother. It didn't matter what I wanted. Today I often ask god what his plan is for me? I ask that question frequently because I truly believe that the journey I am on and the individuals that have come into my life and the challenges and changes put in the path I am walking through have brought me to the place that I am today.
I was 42 years old when I was forced to face change. Listen, I was afraid. The fear was in my gut all the way to its core. I couldn't do this. I couldn't start over after everything I put in to the life I had built. For two years I was lost. I didn't know where I belonged. I didn't feel like I fit in anywhere and I couldn't bring myself back to the devoted mother my son knew. Remember when I mentioned that Rock Bottom suddenly had a basement. Well, I had just purchased a house when I was laid off from my job for the first time ever. I remember that day. I was driving home and I knew that I didn't want to give anymore and took a path that led me to distructive behavior for six months. I could only think of making sure I got my son through his final year of high school. As I began to see things fall apart for me, I knew that I had to take hold of my life. I wasn't going down this way! At 45 years old I would begin my new career.

What I learned is that whatever people think about me and my dream is none of my business. After years of worrying how people saw me and what they think of me, I finally figured it out.
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